I wonder Is It possible to become true friends with your co worker or I prefer to treat them as my colleague more. If you have read my blog I have many bitter experience with my colleague.
Once upon a time, I believe in treating your co worker as your friend will make works more efficiently done and better team work.
“W” a clerk of mine have been work for 2 years +. Maybe because she just older then me a year. I treating her as my friend and sometimes If she done some mistake I’ll help her cover up so she won’t get scolding and just advice her to be more careful next time.
She once resign already and after 3 months she ask for the work back and I’ve told her this will be the last time and please do your work properly. She’s kinda clumsy and careless sometimes but also a good clerk. Recently I found out that she backstab me alot thru her FB walls caused last time I didn’t add her so I don’t know.. I wonder why can someone be just like a “Double sided tape” both side also can stick. Sighz.. recently her working attitude so sucks. She told me she wanted to change job. I don’t mind cause everyone hope to find a better one but I just hope people won’t at back talk bad words and In front become so innocence and treat you so good. Whatever she said now I’ll doubt It In my heart and hurts to know when you sincerely treating someone as a friend and behind your back. She could said something you won’t even believes.
Recently my boss ask me to give her a warning letter. But haven’t had the chance to passed It to her. I got the feeling once she received It she’ll quit the job. But this time I’ll 公事公办 and won’t 心软.